I /would/ act differently. First of all, I’d be really fucking happy for them and second of all I would try to be very careful about how I speak around them and ask questions about if I’m being offensive or not.
I’m at my aunt’s house for Easter in a small conservative town in Washington. They have toilet paper with president obama’s face in it. ugh x 1,000
My little cousin said “it’s a boy bunny because it’s wearing blue” and I placed my hand over my heart and said “aww gender rolls” without thinking and oh boy I got the stink eye from everybody.